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How does one discern which pieces of advice to heed and which to dismiss? For starters, trust your instincts. Your intuition is your most...

BIG NEWS! My book, my creative baby that I've been working on over the last couple of years, my message that I have to share with the...

The baby’s very first feces will be a substance called meconium. Meconium is a thick, sticky, black-ish substance and it is completely...

Though it might not seem obvious, child sexual abuse is most definitely linked to pornography. For starters, the popular aesthetic of a...

Though it isn’t directly related to parenting, interacting with people who are different from us is related to being a kind human being...

As the person in the partnership who is not carrying the child, you are usually referred to as the “secondary caregiver”. But that does...

Parenthood and primary caregiving changes and challenges your identity. There are times when you’ll manage it better than others, but it...

Astrology holds different meaning for different folks. Some think it’s total cuckoo-voodoo-wacky-quacky-witchy-hooey nonsense. For some,...

I don’t know what it is, exactly, about cloth diapers that terrifies people, but does it ever! I’ve actually had people call me “brave”...

Other than your medical or midwife team and possibly a doula, who do you want to have in your birthing space? It is for you to decide. It...

As they grow, babies become pretty resourceful when it comes to communicating their wants and needs. There are some tools you can learn...

Parents have a tendency to go a smidge overboard with accumulation of material things for their kids. It can happen perfectly innocently....

Adoption is not something that I have direct personal experience with, but it is something my partner and I are strongly considering for...

The decision to grow your family and add additional children is a decision you and your partner will make, much like the first. Like the...

Mental and emotional labour are the invisible but oh-so-taxing part of being a primary caregiver. It’s at the core of why so many moms...

Choosing the right partner is intrinsically important to every aspect of pregnancy, birth and parenting so try not to get pregnant with a...

Introducing solid food is a fairly flexible process. Feel free to look for signs of readiness in your own baby. If they show interest at...

Co-sleeping, or bed-sharing, with your child is culturally informed. In many places around the world, it is commonplace. In North...

For most of us, technology is a part of daily life. Let’s start by looking at the positives. It is a source of entertainment for kids....

You’ll probably hear, over and over, that your role is to support the mother in labour. But it’s not always clear exactly how to provide...

They say it takes a village to raise a child. It’s a nice sentiment but the fact is, most of the villagers are now urbanites. To put it...

Miscarriages are surprisingly common. Likely, many women you know have experienced one or more. And not talking about it doesn’t make it...

Prepare yourself. The unsolicited, outdated advice and the dire warnings are coming! Some are more questionable than others. Some are...

Birth is an instinctual thing. As labour progresses, let your mind and body naturally focus inward. It won’t serve you to distract...

You need to eat. Have your partner or support people make you something simple at first. Perhaps toast, or maybe you’ll have a craving...

As a self-proclaimed professor of unpopular opinion, I’m about to say two of the most unpopular things I could utter to a pregnant woman:...

If your preference is for home birth but you worry about possible dangers, rest assured that midwives will advise against it if they have...

Once you become pregnant, you will initially be under the care of your family doctor. If you have certain risk factors, you will likely...

I couldn’t talk about unpopular practices without broaching the most unpopular view on the most controversial subject in parenting –...

Before I got pregnant, my position on circumcision was neutral. Like many, I accepted it as a normal custom in our culture. I knew that...